Wednesday, 9 October 2013

Reasons Why You Were Rejected By "You Know Who"

It’s an age long scenario being rejected or having to watch that man you like or love choose someone else over you. Most times you show false bravado just to hide your bleeding heart and later hide away to nurse your hurt.

 
Question is, do you even have an idea why the guy dropped you for the other person? According Alex my inhouse consultant, the three major reasons are:

1.  You didn't understand (or care about) the guy's
needs. (All You cared about was your own happiness, dreams and wishes)




2  You disliked the other women in his life.( Thinking these women were absolutely no good).

3. You pretended to be someone you’re not. (You probably asked the guy what his "ideal woman" was like, and then you tried to fit that description). Here's a free tip, ladies: NEVER ask a guy you like about
his "ideal woman..." because if he tells you, then it
means you're NOT his ideal woman.



3 Steps To Avoiding Rejection, Pain, Insecurity And Misery  


1. Understand his needs better.

2. If the guy you loved chose a "bad girl" over you, then
you'll need to ask yourself: "What did she have that I
didn't? What did she do that I didn't?" (Learn the secrets of "bad girls").


3.)Discover your gifts and be yourself



Floor's open, feel free to critique.......

24 comments:

  1. i run a practical training class for bad girls so please rush and register

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  2. I love the new look of your blog. Lovely.

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    1. Thanks Spicy!!! Do you agree with Alex?

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    2. the new zebra skin makes me want to eat anu nchi :(

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  3. I am a bad guy..... I turn good girls bad. Want some??

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    1. Sweerie you're a learner o! Chikezie's got the bragging rightst

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    2. Sorry love, kezie can't tie my laces

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    3. Bros, i no wan tie your laces........i only untie women thongs n bras

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    4. Nice one bro

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    1. So behave, see these claws? Won't be sheating them anytime soon

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    2. is that a promise? i dey wait u o!

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  5. I have rejected some girls and some girls have rejected me also. Life is funny.

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  6. Flee from the man looking for the ideal woman. Flee from that looking for the ideal man. If he wants a 'bad' girl now, he'll someday wish he had wanted a 'good' girl. And vice versa. A man who's got thousands can be richer than he who's got millions. Being married to a Beyonce doesn't make you any happier than with a Crunchy. The secret is in 'growing' and learning how to be content, each step of the way...

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    1. As long as she/he makes u happy, be content and no chook eye for Uche (unisex) waist o!

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    2. Gbam, Loki! That's simply what matters. Bad o, good o, short, fat, tall... If you aren't happy, what's the point? That waist wey you even look jump enter no go hungry you again when the woman don give you serious long term akpo.

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  7. I agree with Alex. He's so on point!

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  8. Hmmmmmm this relationship eish is so freaking complicated. What rocks ones boat can sink the others. In my opinion, just be who you are, trying to be something u're not is where the problems begin.

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    1. Beauty is definitely in the eye of the beerholder.......i mean, beholder :p

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  9. Maybe you are right, but it's just so amazing when you hear reasons why some ppl left their relationships. You just wouldn't believe them.
    @ Gigi, nice contribution.

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    1. Where have you been hiding 9jaAirReport? Don't tell me you were sick again

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  10. How about those that reject their partners for fear of commitment? And I mean both parties!

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