Wednesday 19 June 2013

What Does Virginity Mean To You?


Basically, a virgin female is regarded as a woman who has never had male genitalia in her “Bermunda Triangle”. This means that the hymen is intact and the woman is expected to conduct herself in a certain manner befitting a virgin.  A virgin is expected to remain chaste and not get involved in any sexual overtures of any kind. But just like every evolving situation, it seems a new set of expectations and rules have been created to justify some actions.


Recently, it is a known fact that this new set of actions are all dependent on one’s moral, cultural and religious leanings, you find a female who would never say no to any form of oral sex but would never agree to full penetration and this makes one wonder if the definition of virginity should not be amended.


In your opinion, who do you consider a virgin? How far would one go before you  strike off such a person from the virginity list?

14 comments:

  1. In my own opinion, a virgin is someone who has never had sex(oral or penetration)... Or have even ever thought about it before... Hehehe

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  2. If you have enjoyed the pleasures known only in sex, whether you were pleasured by the tongue, fingers, vibrator,coke bottle, banana, handbrake, gear selector, door knob, umbrella hand, or roll-on container, or (my all time favourite), hard stare (this works for me...looking-into-her-eyes-but-staring-into-her-soul kinda stare, and you can practically hear the popcorns pop!)...or with your "ikenga", you are not a virgin, whether hymen dey dia or na hywomen! If nature knew how perverse man would eventually become, a woman's body would also carried a "seal of quality"...lol...like if a woman have experienced any of the above, her hair would fall off so that by their baldness, we will know them!

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    1. Hahahahahahaha Son of Man!!!!!!!!!!

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    2. lol. Agreed. The baldness will be a laughing matter that will never sieze.

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    3. can't top laughing

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  3. Afam B. C. Nnaji19 June, 2013 12:00

    Hmmm, what of kissing? I guess the definition of virginity should be updated to reflect reality same way new words are created and added to the dictionary every now and then.

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  4. I think Virginity is bullshit! There are "whores" who are better off at moral behaviour than virgins. Sex is not the only issue associated with morales. Why do we give too much attention to virginity? It don't mean shit! It just means the person ain't had penetrative intercourse before. The person in question could be a liar, thief, armed robber, drug addict, "winch", hot tempered bitch, or worse a nymphomaniac waiting to be unlocked.
    Sypho1

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  5. I am solidly behind SonOfAMan on this!
    #Nuff said

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  6. to me any BAMUNDA Triangle that i have not entered is virgin to me hymen or not

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  7. Ojay are you a girl? If you are please comot for my back...come for my front..or under me...*wink*...lol

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  8. I agree with Anonymous on this. Virginity in itself is overrated today, in my opinion. We have 'virgins' who would make u go beet-red in embarassment or ecstacy (depending on what side of d table u r) @ d things they do or say. So really, kini big deal???

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  9. Medically speaking,an intact Hymen signifies a woman been a Virgin but it has been discovered that activities such as horse riding has accounted for a certain percentage of hymen breaks so such women will fall into what category.
    Moreover a lot of "virgins" ( unpenetrated - by - phallus virgins ) have embarked on "every" save for the actual penetration,so which category will they fall into?
    Begs the question if this term "virgin" or "virginity" shouldn't be scrapped off the planet of words or a referendum conducted to redefine the word.
    Hahahahahaha

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  10. Virginity isn't overrated like you all claim. Most ladies aren't virgins and men still marry them. The whole essence of virginity is abstinence. It's represent a sexually pure lady. A lady who hasn't indulged in sexually activity but oral and non oral. So if a lady engages in oral sex in my own OPINION she isn't a virgin. But exception can be given to ladies who were raped or had accidents. Remember its my opinion

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