Monday, 17 June 2013

Why Women Cheat...........

Cheating used to be a man thing, when the excitement is gone and even if they are in a steady relationship, the hunt must continue. These days, the ground has been leveled and the women no longer sit tight and take whatever is dished out, So we've been hearing a lot of men crying foul!

Just to help the menfolk evaluate their situation, here's a list of why women cheat and how to go about handling this development.

 
  •   Lack / Fear Of Intimacy
If she's been toying with the idea of a walk down the aisle but you're still not commiting, then chances are she might start searching for a new candidate. Of course, on the off chance that you're pressuring her into marriage before she's ready, she may just seek the comfort of a casual acquaintance. The basic principle is that you're both not on the same page.

Solution: Communicate. Be honest about where you stand, and if you notice that the two of you aren't on the same level when it comes to commitment, be honest with yourselves and come to a realistic conclusion.

  • You Change Drastically
 You used to be nicer, but now everything seems to irritate you. You used to have a six-pack, but now all you do is drink them. You get lazy, you stop trying to impress her and you no longer take care of yourself. Suddenly, the houseboy or driver looks hotter...

Solution: Don't let yourself go. You are allowed a modicum of comfort in a relationship, but don’t forget to keep fit.

  •   Someone's Giving Her More Attention
If you've ever seen the movie Unfaithful, you'd know that sometimes women cheat simply because something tempting came along. Maybe she's bored in the relationship, maybe she happens to bump into "Mr. Perfect." Whatever the case, sometimes timing is everything.

Solution: She's restless and starts hunting for excitement. This is difficult to resolve. Keep the communication lines open.You need to find a way to make things exciting for her again, even if you don't agree that the relationship has become stagnant.

  • You Cheated On Her
If you've ever strayed on your woman, prepare yourself for the worst.

This is not to say that all women who have been cheated on will seek revenge, but most feel as though they have a "free pass” and this pass can be used anytime.

Solution: This one's easy -- don't cheat. But in the off chance that you already have, and are certain that you will not do it again, you have to constantly reassure her that you're not up to anything in order to regain her trust. And if you notice that she flirts more often with other guys or starts treating you badly, then perhaps you should consider moving on.

  • She's Just Rotten
Women complain that all men are pigs, but there are a couple of female pigs too.
If you are dating one of these kinds of women, walk away, and if not, then double date.





I pray no female friend breaks my head today.

26 comments:

  1. The drastic change is one thing that annoys the women folks the most, a guy would go an extra mile to get a woman, once he gets her he stops doing the things he did to get her. In recent times women don't sit around patiently like our mothers, hoping and praying the guy would go back to what he used to be. She'll make her own moves.
    Another thing that makes a woman cheat is lack of attention. We love attention, we crave for it like pregnant women crave for food. Try to back ur words with action, like I always say "talk is free" so anyone can afford to say anything @ any given time, but action speaks more. Take out time from ur busy schedule and have a "we time" just the two of you. No matter how busy you are take out time to send an SMS, BBM MsG, whatsapp Msg, Viber MSG or smoke signal if you have to just to know how her day is going and encourage her. Always give the woman you love attention cos if she's not getting it from you, she'll assume you're giving it to someone else, she becomes bitter and insecure, before you can say jack! Some guy out there is giving her some sugar.

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    1. Most ladies also need a guy dat can be protective of them. Every lady wants 2be assured thay are in safe hands&secured

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    2. very well said

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  2. True talk guys.

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  3. For either of the sex weather male or female there's no big enough reason to fornicate or commit adultery! That's why should yield to God in choosing a partner for you and all other things!

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  4. Lets not generalize it, people cheat foe.various reasons.

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    1. Tekena what reasons would make you cheat?

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  5. Nne nobody will break your head. Nice one!

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  6. Nne nobody will break your head. Nice one!

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  7. hehehe talk about 'what men can do...'

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  8. You may be right, but could there be any justification for cheating? You no try @ all. *winks.

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    1. Lol! No justification at all, if e reach u to look outside then its time to move on

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  9. Hmmmmm,reserve my comment.

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  10. israel (brocklynfinest)17 June, 2013 21:09

    You knw wat guys?the minute my girl cheat on me for any flimsy excuse,I will simply show her d way out.period.

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    1. Lovely, a man who knows what he wants, that's if its not ur fault o! U can't be acting the victim if fur hand dey am

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  11. I can't stand any form of abuse! Physical,emotional, psychological and even verbal abuse would make me WALK not cheat..
    Thumbs up, babe. Keep them coming.xx

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  12. @sureboi_tohbad18 June, 2013 08:45

    This is so so true. 9ce write up...............

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  13. A creature of God either male or Female is entitled to be happy.This life is too short to stay in an unhappy relationship. Walk away without any apology if you are not comfortable anymore with the relationship. Do it while your heart is still intact.

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