Saturday, 1 June 2013

What Do Men Want?

I stumbled on an article that listed the kind of women that men try as much as possible to avoid, and to the best of my knowledge no woman can escape that list hoha! going by that list its obvious men definitely do not know what they want. I know that women are wired differently, they are seen as complex and way too emotional while men remain easy going and simple to understand but when one man carries this kind of list then there's a huge problem, either he doesn't know what he wants or he's misguided. 1.Miss "Bossy Pants: 2. Miss "Playing Games With His Heart 3. Miss "I Want To Change You": 4.Miss "Suspiciously Jealous 5. Miss "I Live For You And I Have Nothing Else Going On 6.Miss "I Have Daddy Issues 7.Miss "I Speak To My Mother Five Times A Day About Everything 8.Miss "Shhh, I Shouldn't Really Be Saying This 9. Miss "Keeping Up With The Joneses": 10. Miss "I Don't Eat I've seen perfectly good girls get heartbroken and i know these girls are the full package mehn! girls who have given their all and you see them come out of these relationships with unanswered questions as to where they went wrong, what they didn't do right, so to the menfolk, what exactly are you looking for in a woman? I don't want textbook answers, just search inwards and give me a list of your realistic expectations from women, what are those salient indices that would make you choose that one imperfect woman against all others?

19 comments:

  1. help me ask em oh!..........lolz

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  2. money, power, respect......and big boobs

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  3. Afam B. C. Nnaji01 June, 2013 11:46

    Depends. Reasonable men want to make money, want to eat well, play well and have as friends or partners reasonable, honest, sincere and caring women.

    They want to have peace of mind, want to have around them women that are confident of themselves and can hold their own any day anytime, want women that are not afraid of making mistakes and those that can look one in the eye and say 'I don't like or want this'.

    Reasonable men hate pretense, sycophancy and hypocrisy.

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  4. henry ochonogor01 June, 2013 11:55

    My dear Crunchy Apple well i am going to say it how i made it look in my own special way..Over the years we’ve all been seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I have always wanted to have....And i tell you i have found that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.

    So my dear you see this man really knows what he wants so i urge others both male and female to Let our scars fall in love...

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  5. I am very pleased to read the contents of this blog. It is truly entertaining and helpful to someone that want to catch some crunchy fun quickly. I look forward to more publications here.
    Emeka Ugwuonye

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    1. lol! we arent looking for quick fun, something more enduring

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  6. I rep real men who recognises and appreciate real women and see the perfection in their imperfections.

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  7. What we want is sex when and how we want it without complaints and nagging and hissing. More like "take it and like it". That's what women want in men too..., amongst many!
    Sypho1

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  8. Ha the list is long but honestly it difers for dif men my own philosophy is any man who gives abstract reasons for dumping u aint committed enough mehn

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    1. Biola does she have to wait until the man dumps her?

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  9. As the saying goes, different strokes for different folks!!! I'd want a woman who'd be my partner and confident in all things. I won't do anything with an over religious woman!!!!

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  10. Men simply don't want women they can't stand! And let's be honest with ourselves 90% of women today fall into the category of your list. The other 10% are in a state of pure bliss! Ask them! Without wanting to sound like a mama's boy, men actually want someone to replace their mother. Someone they can rely on, someone that has their back. And yes men will always be men and do all the stuff that men like to do, but that woman that we really love will always be treated like a queen.

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  11. For me the woman has to be supportive emotionally, be there for me during bad and good times. She should agree, discuss, question and plan with me in every sphere of our lives or relationship.

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  12. IN YOUR GIST YOU HAD US ALL FIGURED OUT WHY DEN DO U WANT TO KNOW US MENH YOU CALL MENH SIMPLE BUH WOMEN ARE NOT SIMPLE ITS A BIG DIFFERENT I KNOW UNLIKE CHARGES ATTRACT BUH EXCESS OF IT COULD CAUSE DAMAGE KNOW WAT UR MAN WANT THATS IT

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  13. I want a woman with Jay-Lo kind of ass,the boldness of Oprah,The intellengence of Condo Rice and the grace of Michelle Obama.

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    1. lol! Francis keep dreaming, either you go to church for deliverance or u wait for heaven

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  14. Dear CrunchyApple, I'll like to oppose your opinion saying that men don't really know W̶̲̥̅̊ђA̶̲̥̅t they want. And Ɣ‎​ε̲ƨ! Whoever wrote that msg Į̸̸̨§ absolutely right in the sense that every man has atleast one thing he can't stand in a woman listed. But as Mr Henry Ochonogor wrote, wƐ finally settle Fø̲̣я that woman who Į̸̸̨§ rightfuly wrong in the right way. One who compliments out weaknesses. One whose strenghts ɑrε in those areas wƐ find ourselves wanting. A perfect refrence can be drawn from me. I am naturaly gentle. Too gentle Fø̲̣я ♏v̶̲̥̅ own good. I can take a lota shit from ppl.almost never gets angry with anyone. I forgive and forget so easily and try to compensate by never giving you another chance at wronging me. I almost never punish anyone Fø̲̣я their wrongs. Now, I find that I am so attracted to ladies who never hesitates a second to treat anyone's f*ck up. Who never takes shit from anyone and who nevr passes up the slightest chance to stick it up Ūя̲̅ nose by reminding Yoи‎​‎​ constantly abt your f*ck up. Though I really hate whn she does it wit me *laughs*. Every man wants a woman who's intelligent, smart, briliant, & bold. Who never hesitates to tell us their opinion abt anytin whether wƐ like it or not which doesn't mean you should challenge and nag us at every turn. That's where maturity in a woman Į̸̸̨§ most needed. The ability to choose whn to and whn nt to interfere with the man's plans Α̲̅πϑ judgements. Some men may contradict this fact because they would prefer a docile housewife material who nevr challenges their decisions & judgements. But deep dwn, when wƐ come down to it, wƐ all want a woman who will be able to care Fø̲̣я us like a mother, critize us like a sister, confide in us and us in them like a partner, nevr hesitate to pull us back and tell us the truth when wƐ re on the wrong path like a friend, and who will love and pamper us like a wife all @ once. These dear CrunchyApple ɑrε WђAt wƐ want in a woman.

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    1. Wow! I bet I'm not the only one reading this, we'll add it to the list of what "some" men want. Thanks for sharing

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